Funeral Planning

Funeral planning Sub Tab

Obituary

  • “How to Write an Obituary” A helpful 3-minute video

https://youtu.be/7uZEPaC4974

  • How to Write an Obituary Guide:

https://www.remembranceprocess.com/capturing-a-life-in-words/guide-to-writing-an-obituary/

 

Location of Service—funeral home versus church

  • A quick overview of funerals:

https://www.everplans.com/articles/a-quick-overview-of-funerals

 

Green burials

  • General Information:

https://funerals.org/?consumers=green-burial

  • Background on Green Burials

https://greenburialcouncil.org/home/what-is-green-burial/

  • Google “green burials” and click on the “shopping” tab. There are several books as well as items that can be purchased.

 

Cremation

  • All You Need to Know About Cremation

https://www.everplans.com/articles/all-you-need-to-know-about-cremation

  • Understanding Laws About Cremation

http://www.us-funerals.com/funeral-articles/understanding-cremation-laws-and-how-they-affect-arranging-a-cremation.html#.XFsFfy3MzOQ

  • Cremation Society of Illinois

https://www.cremation-society.com/index.php

 

 

Liturgies

 

Seating Plan & Family Dynamics

Modern families may include spouse, children, stepchildren, significant others, ex-spouses, ex-in-laws, etc. Deciding where families will sit at the funeral or memorial service is a critical part of funeral planning. (see PDF of sample seating chart)

 

Anatomical Gifts

  • The Anatomical Gift Association of Illinois

http://agaillinois.org

 

Veterans Planning

  • Veteran Burial Benefits in Illinois

https://www2.illinois.gov/veterans/benefits/Pages/survivor-burial.aspx

  • General VA benefits

https://www.benefits.va.gov/compensation/claims-special-burial.asp

Funeral Planning Guide

 

____________________________________________________________

(first)                                      (middle )                               (last name)

 

When a loved one dies, the family is often confused and upset. Grief may be so great that they are unable to think clearly about necessary arrangements. Most of these arrangements can be made prior to the time of need.

 

It is the wish of your church and minister to be of every assistance at this time. By completion of this form, your church and minister will be able to share your wishes with those responsible for your funeral arrangements.

 

This form will be kept in a confidential file. Additional copies are available if you desire. 

 

This form is for informational purposes and is not intended to be a legally binding document.

 

The following indicates my preferences concerning my own funeral.

 

  1. I prefer that the following firm serve as Funeral Director:

 

Name:_____________________________________________________________________

 

Address:____________________________________ Phone Number:________________

 

  1. In regard to the disposition of my body:

 

___ ______   I prefer that my body be buried.

 

I now own a lot in __________________________________________ cemetery.

 

Section_________________ Lot_______________ Block_____________________

 

I do not own a lot, but I prefer burial in_________________________________

cemetery.

 

_________   I prefer that my body be entombed.

 

I now own a crypt in ______________________________________ mausoleum.

 

Section_________________ Lot_______________ Block_____________________

 

I do not own a crypt, but I prefer entombment in_________________________

mausoleum.

 

_________   I prefer that my body be cremated.

 

I prefer that the disposition of the ashes be as follows:____________________

 

____________________________________________________________________

 

____________________________________________________________________

 

____________________________________________________________________

 

If interment or entombment is to be in another city, ship to:______________________

 

___________________________________________________________________________

(Receiving Funeral Director)

 

_______________________________                     __________________________________

(address)                                                                                             (city & state)

 

  1. I prefer that any memorial gifts take the form of:

 

______ Flowers

______ Gifts to the Church (designate if desired):

______ Gifts to these Charities:

 

___________________________________________________________________________

 

4._ My will is located___________________________________________________________

 

___ It  (does)  (does not)  contain instructions regarding these matters.

 

5._ The following information is given to help in the planning of my funeral service.

 

  1. Type of service_______ Funeral with Casket Present

________ Memorial without Casket

 

  1. Place of service_______ Church

________ Funeral Home

________ Cemetery

________ Other

 

  1. I prefer that my body ______ be viewed________ not be viewed prior to the service.

 

  1. Hymns to be Sung by the Congregation –

 

_________________________________________________________________________

 

_________________________________________________________________________

 

_________________________________________________________________________

 

_________________________________________________________________________

 

  1. Scripture Readings –

 

_________________________________________________________________________

 

_________________________________________________________________________

 

_________________________________________________________________________

 

_________________________________________________________________________

 

  1. Special Music –

 

_________________________________________________________________________

 

_________________________________________________________________________

 

_________________________________________________________________________

 

_________________________________________________________________________

 

  1. Other Comments or Preferences Regarding my Service –

 

_________________________________________________________________________

 

_________________________________________________________________________

 

_________________________________________________________________________

 

_________________________________________________________________________

 

  1. In my estate planning I have added provisions in my will to provide the following gifts and/or offerings to:
    ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

    ___________________________________________________________________________

    ___________________________________________________________________________

  2. Recognizing that certain facts will need to be provided upon my death, I offer the following information to make it easier for those responsible for my funeral arrangements.

 

Full Name:____________________________________________________________________

 

Address:______________________________________________________________________

 

City:___________________________________________   State:________________________

 

Birth Date:_____________________________   Birth Place:___________________________

 

Occupation:___________________________________________________________________

 

Education:____________________________________________________________________

 

Spouse’s Name:_______________________________________________________________

 

Spouse’s Date of Birth:__________________________________________________________

 

Marriage:______________________________   Where:_______________________________

 

Children:_____________________________________________________________________

(city)                                      (county)                                                (state)

 

Children:_____________________________________________________________________

(city)                                      (county)                                                (state)

 

Mother’s Maiden Name:________________________________________________________

 

Mother’s Birth Place:___________________________________________________________

(city)                                      (county)                                                (state)

 

Survivors –

Sons:______________________________________________________________________

 

Daughters:_________________________________________________________________

 

Brothers:___________________________________________________________________

 

Sisters:____________________________________________________________________

 

No. of Grandchildren:_______________________________________________________

 

No. of Great-Grandchildren:_________________________________________________

 

 

For Veterans Only

 

 

Date of Enlistment:______________________ Place:_________________________________

 

Date of Last Discharge:__________________ Place:_________________________________

 

Location of Discharge Paper:____________________________________________________

 

Type:_____________ Branch:______________ Rank:___________ Unit:________________

 

Service No:____________________________

………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………..

 

This completed form is an indication of what I now desire. I may wish to change these preferences at a later time by contacting the church office at 309-663-7437.

 

 

Signed__________________________________________ Date________________________