Funeral Planning
Funeral planning Sub Tab
Obituary
- “How to Write an Obituary” A helpful 3-minute video
- How to Write an Obituary Guide:
https://www.remembranceprocess.com/capturing-a-life-in-words/guide-to-writing-an-obituary/
Location of Service—funeral home versus church
- A quick overview of funerals:
https://www.everplans.com/articles/a-quick-overview-of-funerals
Green burials
- General Information:
https://funerals.org/?consumers=green-burial
- Background on Green Burials
https://greenburialcouncil.org/home/what-is-green-burial/
- Google “green burials” and click on the “shopping” tab. There are several books as well as items that can be purchased.
Cremation
- All You Need to Know About Cremation
https://www.everplans.com/articles/all-you-need-to-know-about-cremation
- Understanding Laws About Cremation
- Cremation Society of Illinois
https://www.cremation-society.com/index.php
Liturgies
- Overviews of Different Funeral rites:
- Catholic: http://www.usccb.org/prayer-and-worship/bereavement-and-funerals/overview-of-catholic-funeral-rites.cfm
- Lutheran: https://www.everplans.com/articles/lutheran-funeral-traditions
- Methodist: https://www.umcdiscipleship.org/resources/a-service-of-death-and-resurrection
- Presbyterian https://www.funeralwise.com/customs/presbyterian/
- Baptist: https://www.funeralwise.com/customs/baptist/
- Others?
Seating Plan & Family Dynamics
Modern families may include spouse, children, stepchildren, significant others, ex-spouses, ex-in-laws, etc. Deciding where families will sit at the funeral or memorial service is a critical part of funeral planning. (see PDF of sample seating chart)
Anatomical Gifts
- The Anatomical Gift Association of Illinois
Veterans Planning
- Veteran Burial Benefits in Illinois
https://www2.illinois.gov/veterans/benefits/Pages/survivor-burial.aspx
- General VA benefits
https://www.benefits.va.gov/compensation/claims-special-burial.asp
Funeral Planning Guide
____________________________________________________________
(first) (middle ) (last name)
When a loved one dies, the family is often confused and upset. Grief may be so great that they are unable to think clearly about necessary arrangements. Most of these arrangements can be made prior to the time of need.
It is the wish of your church and minister to be of every assistance at this time. By completion of this form, your church and minister will be able to share your wishes with those responsible for your funeral arrangements.
This form will be kept in a confidential file. Additional copies are available if you desire.
This form is for informational purposes and is not intended to be a legally binding document.
The following indicates my preferences concerning my own funeral.
- I prefer that the following firm serve as Funeral Director:
Name:_____________________________________________________________________
Address:____________________________________ Phone Number:________________
- In regard to the disposition of my body:
___ ______ I prefer that my body be buried.
I now own a lot in __________________________________________ cemetery.
Section_________________ Lot_______________ Block_____________________
I do not own a lot, but I prefer burial in_________________________________
cemetery.
_________ I prefer that my body be entombed.
I now own a crypt in ______________________________________ mausoleum.
Section_________________ Lot_______________ Block_____________________
I do not own a crypt, but I prefer entombment in_________________________
mausoleum.
_________ I prefer that my body be cremated.
I prefer that the disposition of the ashes be as follows:____________________
____________________________________________________________________
____________________________________________________________________
____________________________________________________________________
If interment or entombment is to be in another city, ship to:______________________
___________________________________________________________________________
(Receiving Funeral Director)
_______________________________ __________________________________
(address) (city & state)
- I prefer that any memorial gifts take the form of:
______ Flowers
______ Gifts to the Church (designate if desired):
______ Gifts to these Charities:
___________________________________________________________________________
4._ My will is located___________________________________________________________
___ It (does) (does not) contain instructions regarding these matters.
5._ The following information is given to help in the planning of my funeral service.
- Type of service_______ Funeral with Casket Present
________ Memorial without Casket
- Place of service_______ Church
________ Funeral Home
________ Cemetery
________ Other
- I prefer that my body ______ be viewed________ not be viewed prior to the service.
- Hymns to be Sung by the Congregation –
_________________________________________________________________________
_________________________________________________________________________
_________________________________________________________________________
_________________________________________________________________________
- Scripture Readings –
_________________________________________________________________________
_________________________________________________________________________
_________________________________________________________________________
_________________________________________________________________________
- Special Music –
_________________________________________________________________________
_________________________________________________________________________
_________________________________________________________________________
_________________________________________________________________________
- Other Comments or Preferences Regarding my Service –
_________________________________________________________________________
_________________________________________________________________________
_________________________________________________________________________
_________________________________________________________________________
- In my estate planning I have added provisions in my will to provide the following gifts and/or offerings to:
_________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________
___________________________________________________________________________
- Recognizing that certain facts will need to be provided upon my death, I offer the following information to make it easier for those responsible for my funeral arrangements.
Full Name:____________________________________________________________________
Address:______________________________________________________________________
City:___________________________________________ State:________________________
Birth Date:_____________________________ Birth Place:___________________________
Occupation:___________________________________________________________________
Education:____________________________________________________________________
Spouse’s Name:_______________________________________________________________
Spouse’s Date of Birth:__________________________________________________________
Marriage:______________________________ Where:_______________________________
Children:_____________________________________________________________________
(city) (county) (state)
Children:_____________________________________________________________________
(city) (county) (state)
Mother’s Maiden Name:________________________________________________________
Mother’s Birth Place:___________________________________________________________
(city) (county) (state)
Survivors –
Sons:______________________________________________________________________
Daughters:_________________________________________________________________
Brothers:___________________________________________________________________
Sisters:____________________________________________________________________
No. of Grandchildren:_______________________________________________________
No. of Great-Grandchildren:_________________________________________________
For Veterans Only
Date of Enlistment:______________________ Place:_________________________________
Date of Last Discharge:__________________ Place:_________________________________
Location of Discharge Paper:____________________________________________________
Type:_____________ Branch:______________ Rank:___________ Unit:________________
Service No:____________________________
………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………..
This completed form is an indication of what I now desire. I may wish to change these preferences at a later time by contacting the church office at 309-663-7437.
Signed__________________________________________ Date________________________